excogitator

modish twenty something with too much on the brain.

While evolutionary psychology suggests that women pass on casual sex due to an inherent lack of sexual desire, Conley says there’s an entirely different reason. She posits that women say “thanks, but no thanks” for fear of being judged. She also says that women have serious reservations about whether a one-night stand would be enjoyable with a new partner. She tries to explain to men, “The reason women are turning you down for casual sex seems to be that, for one thing, a lot of you are calling them sluts afterward.” Also, “A lot of you aren’t bothering to try to be good in bed.” Preach.

Anonymous asked: Favorite sex act in your personal life??

loriadorable:

Eating men’s souls while they sleep

black-culture:

- @thesoulasylum When I saw Pharrells album cover I was surprised, grossed out and then realized how typical he is.

The last girl in the back is black. so how typical are YOU? 

black-culture:

- @thesoulasylum When I saw Pharrells album cover I was surprised, grossed out and then realized how typical he is.

The last girl in the back is black. so how typical are YOU? 

(via slimmcharles)

The path isn’t a straight line; it’s a spiral. You continually come back to things you thought you understood and see deeper truths.

—Barry H. Gillespie (via liberatingreality)

(via believeinbrianna)

black-culture:

-@thesoulasylum: Black women are not a gay mans accessory to wear.

FUCKING ALL OF THIS ALL DAY FUCKING LONG 

black-culture:

-@thesoulasylum: Black women are not a gay mans accessory to wear.

FUCKING ALL OF THIS ALL DAY FUCKING LONG 

(via infinitemortal)

"Sorry, I’ve had enough of running away, Sophie. Now I’ve got something I want to protect. It’s you." -Howl

(Source: distale, via galeelee)